Periodic Table of Frameworks · Identity · Moment
4A
4 parts
The Four Agreements
Don Miguel Ruiz
You want to keep yourself in the moment. The problem is a speech about who you are while you take it personally, assume, and phone in the hour. Four agreements. Break one and the rest are wallpaper. Keep them in the ninety seconds and the pattern does not get to drive.
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Be impeccable with your word
2
Don't take anything personally
3
Don't make assumptions
4
Always do your best
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Four agreements. Break one in the moment and the rest are a speech.
Use this on a moment. It answers: Who are you being?
The other half
The archetype is the pattern. The four agreements are the moment the pattern is kept or broken.
How this talks to the others
Leads into
JUDGEThe 90-second choice is which agreement you keep. The rest of the speech can wait.
Leads into
Two fearsTaking it personally is not-enough or not-loved running the moment. The second agreement is the off-switch.
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Perception and perspectiveDon't make assumptions is perspective with a rule. Perception is how the assumption gets in.
Leads into
GROWThe Goal is who you are becoming. The agreements are how you sit in the Reality step without taking it personally.
Pushes against
Drama triangleTaking it personally is the victim corner. The second agreement is the step off. They disagree about whether the scene is about you.
Seminars